The household app for the mental load
Stop being the one who remembers everything.
Divesting the Domestic puts every task — even the invisible ones — in one shared home. Then it shares the load by capacity, energy, and calendar. Not the same person, every time.
$12/mo · cancel anytime · From the community 23.6K women trust
How it works
See it. Share it. Set it down.
See it all
Every task lands in one shared home — including the invisible ones the app already knows households forget. Nothing lives in your head alone anymore.
Share it fairly
The app distributes by capacity, energy, and what's actually on each person's calendar — so it isn't the same person, every single time.
Set it down
Gentle reminders nudge the right person at the right time. You stop being the default — and finally feel the weight lift.
Balanced by design
Everyone can finally see who's carrying what.
No more keeping score in your head. The fair-share dashboard makes the whole household's load visible — at a glance, in real numbers.
When someone's maxed out, the app quietly rebalances to a person with capacity. The conversation stops being a fight and starts being a fact.
Everyone, even the littles
Small enough hands can carry a piece too.
Kids get their own big, friendly view — tap a tile, earn a star, build a streak. Share one device with tap-to-switch profiles and a parent PIN, so the whole family's in it together, not just the two of you.
Built-in sharing
Two admins. By design.
Every other household app hands the keys to one person — so she's still the manager, just with an app to maintain. The default never actually moves.
Divesting the Domestic starts with two co-admins: equal access, equal ownership, equal say. Sharing isn't a setting you have to fight for — it's the foundation the whole app is built on.
What's inside
Built to lift the weight, not just track it.
The invisible-load library
Hundreds of the mental tasks households forget — pre-loaded, so the noticing isn't only yours.
Capacity & energy aware
Assigns by who actually has room — not who happened to be standing there. Low-energy days get lighter tasks.
Calendar-synced
Reads the week ahead so nothing collides with a late meeting, a practice run, or a long-haul day.
Gentle handoffs
Pass a task — with all its context — in two taps. No re-explaining, no follow-up, no managing.
Load insights
See the balance shift over weeks. Proof the load is moving — and permission to keep setting it down.
Whole household
Partners, kids, even grandparents. Everyone sees the same picture — and carries a real piece of it.
Cares for the person, not just the chore
Age-aware self-care and daily habits, built in alongside the chores.
Deep clean on a rhythm
Seasonal tasks — fridge, sheets, filters — that rotate among people on the right cadence.
Weather-aware
Skips the dog walk and the yard work when it's pouring.
the relief is the point
Women who finally put it down.
"For the first time, my partner sees the whole list — not because I nagged, but because the app showed him. I stopped being the manager of our home."
"I didn't realize how much I was holding until it was finally on the screen instead of in my head. That alone was worth it."
Pricing
Less than a coffee a week. More than a fair shot.
One simple plan. Your whole household, fully covered.
Monthly
Pay as you go. Cancel anytime.
Annual
Save 45% vs monthly — and your founding rate is locked in for life.
Founding pricing is for our first members, while spots last. No ads, no selling your family's data — cancel anytime.